Guildford woman's plea: "It's too late for my dad....but we must help to make changes for those who are struggling now because of this pandemic."

The Alzheimer's Society is calling for better access for care home visitors as restrictions ease

Author: Carol MusgravePublished 5th Mar 2021
Last updated 5th Mar 2021

A woman from Guildford is backing a call for care homes to be open to ALL visitors from 8 March - as figures from the Alzheimer's Society show over 5,200 people with dementia in the South East have died with coronavirus.

With many patients with dementia living in care homes, the Alzheimer's Society say they have been adversely affected by Covid - and so have their families, who could have helped loved ones understand the situation.

Linda Goddard, from the charity, told us:

"That role has been taken away.

"For most of us, we understand about coronavirus, that we need to keep our distance, what we need to do.

"But for a person with dementia, they won't necessarily be able to grasp that, so that whole impact that this is having on them is shocking really."

The 5,200 are among more than 34,000 with the condition to have died in England and Wales from Covid-19, making people with dementia the worst-hit by coronavirus.

In addition, new calculations from the Office for National Statistics (ONS) reveal that deaths of care home residents, where at least 70% of people have dementia, are 30% higher than previously thought.

There have been 11,624 deaths since January 2021, which includes care home residents who have died in hospitals or elsewhere.

'Never again'

A coalition of dementia organisations including Alzheimer's Society, Dementia UK, John's Campaign and TIDE (together in dementia everyday), have come together to say never again will those affected face such hardship and loss.

The Alzheimer's Society's investigation has shown that the pandemic's toll goes even further than deaths from the virus.

In a survey of around 1,000 people who care for a family member, partner or someone close to them with dementia:

Around 92% said the pandemic had accelerated their loved one's dementia symptoms

28% of family carers said they'd seen an 'unmanageable decline' in their health

  • Alzheimer's Society's support services have been used over 3.6 million times since the pandemic began

Alzheimer's Society's Dementia Connect support line has been flooded with calls from relatives revealing how quickly their loved ones are going downhill, losing their abilities to talk or feed themselves.

Nearly a third (32%) of those who lost a loved one during the pandemic thought that isolation/lack of social contact was a significant factor in that loss.

People with dementia in care homes have been cut off from their loved ones for almost a year, contributing to a massive deterioration in their health.

  • A third (31%) reported a more rapid increase in loved ones' difficulty speaking and holding a conversation, and a quarter (25%) in eating by themselves
  • Only 13% of people surveyed have been able to go inside their loved one's care home since the pandemic began
  • Almost a quarter (24%) have notbeen able to see their loved one at all for over six months

Alzheimer's Society is calling for meaningful - close contact, indoor - visits to be the default position without delay from 8 March.

Tanya Luckett from Guildford (pic: top) lost her father last year after his health rapidly declined due the impact of Covid-19 visiting restrictions:

"Two years ago, as dad's dementia progressed, he moved into a care home. He was ticking along nicely with his routine where either my mum, me, or our lovely friend Sharon, would visit him every day and regularly take him out.

"It meant he was able to lead a reasonably happy life - until Covid-19 hit and the visiting restrictions were enforced.

"The blanket restrictions meant that we couldn't visit Dad and his life turned upside down. He couldn't understand why we weren't visiting him and why he couldn't go out. He was incredibly confused and anxious, and this made his dementia worse, which led to him escaping from the home several times.

"I know that the stress of all this change, the lack of family contact, the reduction of input and stimulation from us caused his death.

"There must be a more compassionate way of coping with Covid-19 in care homes, particularly for those with dementia.

"It's too late for my dad and I will never fully accept what has happened, but we must help to make changes for those who are struggling now because of this pandemic."

Calls for change

There are an estimated 850,000 people living with dementia in the UK, including more than 134,500 in the South East.

Dementia organisations, including this coalition, joined forces as One Dementia Voice in July 2020 to call for designated family carers to be given key worker status to enable care home visits to loved ones.

While the Government recently announced that indoor visits will restart for one family member from 8 March, the coalition emphasises that this must be the default position and that blanket bans on visitors (where there is no coronavirus outbreak) are unacceptable.

Jacqui Justice-Christ, South East Area Manager at Alzheimer's Society said:

"Coronavirus has shattered the lives of so many people with dementia, worst hit by the pandemic - lives taken by the virus itself, and many more prematurely taken due to increased dementia symptoms and, in part, loneliness. Each one leaves behind a grieving family.

"Family carers, too, have been buckling under the strain. We urge the Government to support people affected by dementia whose lives have been upended, putting recovery plans in place, but also making the legacy of Covid-19 a social care system that cares for the most vulnerable when they need it."

Alzheimer's Society, Dementia UK, John's Campaign and TIDE (together in dementia everyday) are calling for:

A Recovery Plan with the needs of people affected by dementia at their heart. Meaningful - close contact, indoor - visits to be the default position without delay from 8 March. An end to blanket bans on care home visits where there is no active outbreak. A recognition that family carers are integral to the care system. Family carers to register their carer status with GP surgeries to ensure they get vaccination priority, and call on NHS England to ensure all surgeries enable this Universal social care that we can all be proud of, free at point of use, like the NHS, like education - and providing quality care for every person with dementia who needs it.

Alzheimer's Society's Dementia Connect Support line - 0333 1503456 - is available seven days a week, providing information and practical support for people affected by dementia.

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