Yorkshire Coast domestic abuse victims urged to not suffer in silence

Crimestoppers are reminding people on the Yorkshire Coast to speak up anonymously to help save lives.

Author: Karen LiuPublished 22nd Feb 2021
Last updated 22nd Feb 2021

Crimestoppers are reminding people on the Yorkshire Coast to speak up anonymously to help save lives.

It is appealing for any victims of domestic abuse, or anyone who is aware of it happening, to contact them.

The charity is highlighting how it is better to be safe than sorry when it comes to reporting any information.

It says in the first three weeks of March 2020 in the UK, 14 women and two children were killed as a result of domestic abuse - this is the highest rate for 11 years.

Last year, Crimestoppers – along with Refuge who run the National Domestic Abuse Helpline – saw a worrying rise in domestic abuse reports, largely put down to people being forced to remain at home to help stop the spread of Coronavirus. It says during a lockdown, home is not always a safe place, as victims of domestic abuse are trapped with their abuser, with less chances to seek support from loved ones.

The #YouAreNotPowerless campaign has been running this month across Yorkshire & the Humber and consists of a hard-hitting short video depicting various scenarios like the one below:

Crimestoppers says domestic abuse can be physical, psychological, motional, sexual or financial. Any adult can be a perpetrator, with I in 4 people reoffending. It affects 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men during their lifetime. In too many cases, it results in death with 2 women murdered by a current or former partner each week across the UK. Statistics also show that 1 in 5 children sadly witness domestic abuse, which can impact their physical, psychological and emotional well-being and development.

It says you may be a neighbour who has seen or heard threatening and intimidating arguments, which may involve abusive language that can escalate into a violent argument where the partner blames the other for their actions, saying they are “asking for it” or deserve the abuse. You may have seen bruising or other visible marks on a friend, family member or work colleague – this may be the sign of physical abuse. It says it is always better to be safer than sorry.

Crimestoppers says a team of professionals working at their national Contact Centre anonymise all information received – to ensure the person giving the details can never be identified - before passing it on to police to investigate and safeguard. Whether it is a neighbour, friend, work colleague or relative, no one will ever know who provided the information.

Previous domestic abuse lockdown campaigns and appeals last year saw numerous victims safeguarded and action taken against perpetrators as a result of anonymous information the charity received and passed on.

Gemma Gibbs, Yorkshire & the Humber Regional Manager at the charity Crimestoppers, said:

“Every day we hear distressing and poignant stories from people who are doing the right thing and telling us anonymously when they think domestic abuse is happening. We all need to realise that victims may be too scared and traumatised to seek help. We know that a victim typically endures up to 35 assaults before having the strength to speak up, and that can be for many different reasons; fear of losing their children; fear of losing their home; fear of not being believed; even thoughts that they are somehow to blame.

“Our videos show that people may be aware that a neighbour, friend or family member is a victim of domestic abuse but may feel unsure about reporting to police. They highlight that Crimestoppers provides a safe and anonymous way to speak up about suspicions of domestic abuse.

“Information, given to our charity by people across Yorkshire, helps law enforcement bring a halt to abuse and violence in the home. Our message is clear – by working together, being aware and reporting what we know, we can help put a stop to domestic abuse and we can save lives.”

To report domestic abuse 100% anonymously, visit Crimestoppers-uk.org and fill in the simple and secure anonymous online form or call their 24/7 UK Contact Centre on freephone 0800 555 111, 365 days of the year. In an emergency, always call 999.

It says please note: Computer IP addresses are never traced and no-one will ever know you contacted them. For telephone calls, they have no caller line display, no 1471 facility and they have never traced a call.

Additional support

Due to Crimestoppers’ anonymity guarantee, they cannot take information from victims. Support and help are available to victims of domestic abuse, whether or not it is reported to the police, via the following organisations:

• The 24-hour Refuge National Domestic Abuse Helpline is available to call free of charge 24/7 on 0808 2000 247. Web chat and a message facility is also available at www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/. Support is also available from Women’s Aid www.womensaid.org.uk/information-support/ as well as the Men’s advice line mensadviceline.org.uk/ run by Respect for male victims, who can be contacted on 0808 801 0327. Children can contact Childline on 0800 1111 or via www.childline.org.uk

Perpetrators who recognise they need to change their behaviour can contact:

• The Respect Phoneline on 0808 802 4040

Crimestoppers are also working with the following organisation to encourage companies to improve how they support potential employees who have experienced domestic abuse or guide staff on what to do if they have suspicions:

• EIDA (Employers’ Initiative on Domestic Abuse) for information and resources www.eida.org.uk/ and Hestia at www.hestia.org/