Big increase in NI children being counselled for sexual exploitation

In majority of cases Childline says they were targeted online

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Author: Nigel GouldPublished 15th Nov 2019

A rising number of children in Northern Ireland are getting counselling for sexual exploitation.

That is the warning from Childline as it launched its annual review.

Over the year, the charity carried out 140 counselling sessions with children across the province.

That is a 44% increase on the overall figure for the previous year.

The charity says that in 60% of counselling sessions young people from Northern Ireland disclosed they were targeted online - including through social media or video games – often by their peers or people known to them.

Most commonly children from Northern Ireland received help from Childline because they had been tricked into sending naked images or videos of themselves or had been contacted or groomed by someone wanting to sexually exploit them.

Young people told Childline their experience with CSE included receiving affection or gifts in exchange for performing sexual activities.

Others were persuaded to share sexual images online, and then threatened the images would be shared with friends or family.

The Department of Education should provide effective training to teachers building on the good work completed to date in developing guidance and a Relationships and Sexuality Education Hub to share resources for schools. Training should ensure that teachers are comfortable teaching lessons about healthy relationships and consent; and supporting young people to get help from a trusted adult.

An teenage girl revealed to Childline:

“When I was younger I kept going online to talk to people mainly because I felt so alone. Some older guys started chatting to me and I sent nude pictures and videos of myself to them," she said.

" I got compliments and didn’t know how to say no. Most of them knew I was just 13 and some of them threatened to post the pictures online if I didn’t send more. I feel sick just thinking about it and feel so insecure about this all coming back to haunt me.”

Mairead Monds, Childline Service manager for Belfast, said: “Sadly, we are hearing from young people every day who are being manipulated or blackmailed into carrying out sexual acts.

"For many this impacts on their mental health and leaves them feeling isolated from the people closest to them. Some turn to self-harm, alcohol or substance misuse as ways of coping with their experiences.

“Everyone must be prepared to confront this problem, from government right through to schools, parents, professionals, and us at Childline. The Department of Education should build on existing good practice and developments to ensure teachers are confident to teach Relationships and Sexuality Education and Childline needs more volunteers to make sure they can be there for every child who need our help, at all times of day and night."